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How to Provide Care to an Uncooperative Aging Sibling

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How to Care for a Difficult Elderly Sibling in Arkansas

Over the years, you and your sibling may have developed a unique relationship that affects your ability to provide care for him or her. While some siblings have always bickered over the years, others may not see eye to eye once they enter the senior years. When your sibling is uncooperative, you still need to find ways to help him or her stay healthy. Use these tips to overcome sibling rivalry so your brother or sister receives the best care possible.

Put the Past Aside

Sibling rivalries can continue long past childhood. While you cannot undo the past, you can choose to move forward. Letting go of any lingering resentments allows you to maintain a fresh perspective and develop a positive relationship with your sibling.

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Focus on the Facts

Often, seniors are uncooperative out of a fear of losing their independence. Your sibling may be in denial about the need for assistance. During your conversations, focus on his or her current state of health by using factual information. If necessary, you can recruit the help of your sibling’s medical team to explain why he or she may need certain types of assistance to remain healthy. 

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Control Your Responses

While you might not be able to control what your sibling says or does, you can be mindful of your responses. Use positive communication techniques such as revisiting a difficult conversation later if things get heated. Taking time to cool off may prevent things from getting worse so you can come to an agreement later.

Seek Emotional Support

Caregiving can be a stressful responsibility even when things are going well. One of your biggest priorities is to prevent burnout that occurs from becoming overwhelmed. Identify several people you can talk to about your challenges. For example, you can turn to a professional counselor to learn strategies that help you mend your relationship or accept your sibling’s personality. Keep in mind you may need to lean on people outside of your family for emotional support so individuals who are too close do not get caught in the middle of your disagreements.

Know When to Delegate

Sometimes, there is only so much you can do on your own. It may be possible your sibling is uncooperative because he or she does not want to be a burden on you. Alternatively, your sibling may feel embarrassed or awkward about accepting assistance from someone he or she grew up with. When you simply cannot get your sibling to cooperate, it may be more effective to delegate responsibilities to a professional home caregiver.

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